The Angry Therapist

Oct 27, 2015

1 min read

Turn your dial

Don’t ask yourself what you want and how you’re gonna get it. Ask yourself who you are and how you can share that.

Shifting your focus / turning your dial can change everything. For example, when you’re single, why is it that people are suddenly interested in you when you’re NOT looking? And when you’re desperately searching for love, it’s no where to be found. Yes, I understand that “not looking” means not leaking desperation and you become more confident which makes you more attractive. But it’s more than that. It’s your mindset. When your focus is not on the prize, but rather the process, the prize is more likely to come.

So back to your goals. If you are solely focused on chasing after the gold, you will be on a treadmill. This means no inner journey, no growth, just feverishly running. And all I can say to that is, good luck.

It’s only when you seek who are you, what you are able to give, that you become potent and irreplaceable. It’s this process of unlocking your code which will allow you to be in your truest form. It’s this version of you that will make the greatest dent. The more you can be in this state, the more you will achieve success / happiness.

- Angry

Author of “I Used To Be A Miserable F*CK” and “Single. on Purpose.” IG: theangrytherapist

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