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How To Forgive Yourself and Others

The Angry Therapist
3 min readSep 13, 2023

Forgiveness is a powerful and transformative act that involves letting go of resentment, anger, and the desire for revenge. It is not about condoning or forgetting the actions that caused harm, but rather about freeing ourselves from the emotional burden they carry. When we forgive, we choose to release the negative emotions and find a path towards healing and inner peace.

Forgiveness is a process that takes time and effort. It starts with acknowledging our pain and the impact it has had on us. It requires self-reflection and understanding, both of ourselves and of the person we are forgiving. It involves cultivating empathy and compassion, recognizing that we are all flawed and capable of making mistakes.

Forgiving ourselves is equally important. We often hold onto guilt and shame for past actions or decisions. Self-forgiveness involves acknowledging our imperfections, taking responsibility for our actions, and showing ourselves compassion and understanding. It is about learning from our mistakes and allowing ourselves to grow and evolve.

Forgiveness is not a one-time event; it is a daily practice. Some days it may be easier to forgive, while other days it may feel more challenging. It requires patience, self-compassion, and a commitment to let go of the past. By choosing forgiveness, we create space for healing, personal growth…

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The Angry Therapist
The Angry Therapist

Written by The Angry Therapist

Author of “I Used To Be A Miserable F*CK” and “Single. on Purpose.” IG: theangrytherapist

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