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How To Be Single. On Purpose

The Angry Therapist
3 min readSep 19, 2023

Being happy while being single is definitely possible, and it’s all about embracing this unique phase of your life. Instead of viewing being single as a mere gap between relationships, recognize its value and the opportunities it presents for personal growth and self-discovery.

Take the time to reflect on who you are and who you want to become. Ask yourself important questions like, “Who will I be when I do find someone new?” and “What new abilities and tools will I possess?” This mindset shift allows you to focus on your own development rather than solely seeking validation from others.

Being single on purpose means embracing your singlehood as a meaningful and intentional phase of your life. It’s about actively choosing to be single and using this time to focus on personal growth, self-discovery, and building a fulfilling life for yourself. Here are some steps you can take to be single on purpose:

  1. Clarify your intentions: Reflect on why you want to be single and what you hope to achieve during this time. Are you seeking personal growth, healing, or self-discovery? Understanding your intentions will help you stay focused and make conscious choices that align with your goals.
  2. Prioritize self-care: Take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally. Practice self-compassion and make self-care a priority…

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The Angry Therapist
The Angry Therapist

Written by The Angry Therapist

Author of “I Used To Be A Miserable F*CK” and “Single. on Purpose.” IG: theangrytherapist

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